Bb,
I must write this down. I perceive your tone yesterday as very impatient with talking to me. I was upset. You said i brushed you aside. I did not hear you properly as the reception was slow.It’s the 2nd time you speak to me like this. The other day, i merely brush it aside as a joke and say you were fierce to me. This time round, i just felt hurt. I know i am very impatient , eager to speak my point of view, my tone do get very unfriendly most of the time when i want to make a point to you on something i firmly believe in, but i never meant any harm. If i make you upset, you must tell me. Yesterday, i realised how upsetting it can be when someone who loves you so much speak to you in an impatient tone. I never expect it from you.
But i forgive you and will not be angry anymore. I love you too much to be so angry with you for so long but i want you to remember, no matter who speaks to you/ me in this manner or if you/ me speak to anyone in this manner, i don’t care. But , we can learn to use a friendly tone to speak to one another in our relationship. I always think it’s a shame when people behave in a very nice manner to outsiders and treat people they love for granted. I do not want that to be part of my life, that’s why i am asking you to do so for me. I love u.
Fionna