Emotions – Learn to Get it right, Use it Right…

In life, it’s about choices…with the many available choices, you have to make a decision..to derive to this decision…there will be many flashback of prior experience, Family, Friends, Social Responsibility, some people use their rationality to make a decision while the more emotional people make decision using their feelings at that moment about that situation, that is not GUT Feel…as gut feel is a thin slicing process , followed by decision making made subconsciously that requires a lot of prior experience for the thin slicing process to take place..

Back to my blog..i realise when one makes a decision, it’s not about yourself and it has never been about yourself…i used to believe strongly, it’s my life so why should i care too much about others in my decision making..it’s my life that is affected..but i realised that what comes after is the word “RESPONSIBility” of course i can take responsibility of my actions..but the problem steps in when i realise that i become overly concern with the problems caused to others as a result of my decision..maybe this is my character…i feel bad about it…and it did cause a Turning point in my life….which i think is good…maybe bad in my uncle’s eyes

I become more careful and think twice or thrice bfore i make a decision again…

“But you can’t use that as a reason why you are doing this”..he blurted….”

“You will not understand..i no longer make decisions upon emotions…i try not to” i argued..that is my weakness…in the past…

To conclude:

Human are emotional animals …use your emotions at the right time- that is the key to everything but never let people know your emotional state of mind, emotions can be advantageous when used at the right time, right moment and can be disastrous when it gets out of control”