Dear\u00c2\u00a0,<\/p>\n
13 days to your birthday . This is a special day ; because its the first time i get upset with us.<\/p>\n
In\u00c2\u00a0a way, i want you to know how happy i am to have you as co-investor\u00c2\u00a0; i have to be frank i am upset by the fact you choose not to ask me ; since the day i shared this idea with you; till i pop the question yesterday on the role\u00c2\u00a0you like to play.\u00c2\u00a0 I can allow you to take time to think through this before you ask me, what i am distressed ( even till now) is your decision of not asking me and waiting for me to ask. It affects me; and\u00c2\u00a0 where it concerns things that makes a difference for\u00c2\u00a0this relationship\u00c2\u00a0( even a\u00c2\u00a0simple gesture to cook a simple dinner\u00c2\u00a0)\u00c2\u00a0, delayed words are not welcomed. I would prefer the idea of not having\u00c2\u00a0to say and ask for something all the time\u00c2\u00a0,\u00c2\u00a0with a “noted” reply\u00c2\u00a0msn or sms.\u00c2\u00a0I can’t expect you to know what i\u00c2\u00a0want at all times but the least i expect is truth\u00c2\u00a0saying. I do not like the feeling of you keeping to yourself something about us or things you have questions on.<\/p>\n
I hope to understand why you\u00c2\u00a0would prefer to delay your\u00c2\u00a0words\u00c2\u00a0and feelings at time..i don’t know.\u00c2\u00a0<\/p>\n
I just know i am\u00c2\u00a0affected and you need to know. I don’t know how i can\u00c2\u00a0go on trusting us about how you feel at times about us. I really don’t know.\u00c2\u00a0I have made a choice to be upset today\u00c2\u00a0even though it is supposed to be\u00c2\u00a0something happy for us ( that its a step of\u00c2\u00a0moving forward for the 2 of us).<\/p>\n
MEssage:<\/p>\n
I have shared with you before ; i value open communication. If you choose to keep\u00c2\u00a0things to yourself, have secrets , i am perfectly ok because couples should have their own secrets. What i do not appreciate is the “keep to myself” attitude to\u00c2\u00a0share your thoughts at all\u00c2\u00a0.<\/p>\n
Timing do make a difference to things that matters to the heart, when the moment and opportunity to say something is gone, it’s over.<\/p>\n
Value of the delayed words spoken\u00c2\u00a0( though a kind gesture) = Zero<\/p>\n
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Dear\u00c2\u00a0, 13 days to your birthday . This is a special day ; because its the first time i get upset with us. In\u00c2\u00a0a way, i want you to know how happy i am to have you as co-investor\u00c2\u00a0; i … Continue reading